Let's talk about you readers this time.
This should be interesting because the thoughts of it kept storming my head.
Here it goes:
Q1 : What do you do currently, as in college/university course(s) or specific profession(s) and is that/are those what you really love?
Q2: Why? Is it/are those because you wanted to or needed to?
I am brought up in a way with deep influences from my Dad, the ever-busy businessman. When I graduated High School, I felt afraid. Really afraid thinking of my new life, new path.
"What course should I be taking?"
"And where?"
"Should I be following my friends?"
"Or just go with the flow?"
I turned and asked my dad. He said something that I will never forget in my life.
"Whatever you wish to do, just let me know. I will support you, pay for you tuition fees until you graduate."
"There's nothing else I can do with the bloody sweat money and they're all for you kids!"
"All my dad taught me was to support you (children) mainly on educations."
"He did that to your first few uncles and aunts and now I'm gonna do it to you."
So, I chose to be in the University of Nottingham and I didn't regret it. I then pulled out during the first summer break and joined Clark Aviation, to be a Pilot.
Now, I know how hard it is for my dad to start working at the young age of fifteen or sixteen even without a high school level of education. He did not make it through high school and I think because his dad passed away at quite an early age, cutting off the needed financials for him to continue schooling.
I may be too young to think this way but to be completely honest, I am taking up aviation course not because I love it, but because of my future family. Of course, I would love to be a pilot, the professional career that the general society talks the most about - the perks especially (in which I will not discuss about here).
The above paragraph sums up the answer for Q1.
Some people that I know are doing what they are doing now because of their parents' wishes and I do know, not all of their wishes merge with their children's, usually clash. Many are seen to be "forced" to study some particular courses just to please their parents and/or friends and/or even the society. Why is it so hard for the unfortunates to do what they love to do?
In this case, I'm quite the opposite. I have the luxury to pick what I want to do, and hell yeah I'm treasuring this. Flying is what I wanted to do, not needed to. I would like to work as hard as possible to get good money and save them up for my future family. But, I'm in doubt if this is really what I love considering I don't do this personally for myself. In any ways, I do not regret making this step, I will never be. Though, sometimes I would be filled with jealousy seeing people doing what they love, what they really want to do. I'll get over it.
The above paragraph sums up the answer for Q2.
So, why am I saying this post is for you, about you? I would really appreciate it if everyone of you who spent time reading this could write down your personal experiences.
Please state:
- full name and/or nickname (how people greet you)
- how are you related to me (families, friends or even passerby)
- answers for both the questions (Q1 and Q2)
Whatever you're doing right now, try spending five minutes to write them down on the comment box of this post. Let the rest feel for you, not sympathizing but understanding your choices.
A sincere token of appreciation, "Thanks!"