Zealousy Kills: March 2008

Ever realized how much you love your friends?

Try to ask yourself, have you ever said anything negative (at all) about your friends behind their backs and worse, in front of them?
You might have even argued or fought because of miscommunication and misunderstanding.
You might also have built up some grudges on them but they never last long simply because, you still love your friends!

How would you react if a peer of yours say something very unpleasant about one of your close friends?
Things that the peer says might be half true but not completely making sense.

I cannot deny that I have said some bad things about my close friends and so, I am not.
What happens generally to me is that I might not be satisfied with everything what my friends say or do for I have my own ways of doing them.
A bad-tempered person like me will definitely fight for my own stands and thus, creating frictions between us.
It could go very intense, so intense that I would remember it and build up grudges in me.
To make it worse, some "bad" friends would add some oil into the burning flame.
Together, we would complain a lot about them until one point, I would start to defend them, knowing it's not right to do so, especially with their images stuck in my head.
In the end, I would probably get back to my friends, hang out with them, getting closer with these real friends than ever before!
I would also realize that it's not worth jeopardizing our friendship because of everyone's uniquely different personality!

It's true. It's not worth the fight! Friendship is simply, beautiful!

P/S: Some say arguments help to nurture relationships, making them stronger in a way, or two. Do you agree?